Monday, July 19, 2010

Be your BEST...

I thank GOD for the ability to be able to write and express myself freely. There were many points in my life where I felt like I would never become anything more than just a victim. A victim to my own misfortunes. I lost my Daddy at a young age and I miss him everyday that I am alive. I was asked one day if I felt like the absence of my Dad had any effects on my relationships and I sad no. Now, looking back I would have to say yes. Because I didn't have a man in my life growing up to love me, I always felt the need to be loved by men. Admitting this secret to myself has opened up my eyes and my mind and allowed me to see that I didn't need to be loved by a man, I needed to be loved by ME. At 29 is when I can say that I learned to accept all of my misfortunes in life and love ME for who I am. I posses unimaginable strength. I believe that everything happens for a reason and I accept that it is all a part of God's BIG plan. There are many people in my life that have hurt me physically, mentally and emotionally. Well maybe I should say that I allowed them to hurt me... But sometimes you gotta let people be who they are. It is up to you whether you want to accept them and try to guide them or just reject them and move on. I am for empowering men and women to recognize their best potentials and reach for the moon.
I am blessed and I thank God for all the strength and knowledge that he has bestowed upon me. It is my goal to become the BEST me that I can be. I owe it to my children to set a good example of what a MOTHER and a HUMAN BEING should be. If I am to expect the best from them then I need to show them what the best is.
Love yourself enough to accept nothing but greatness from others and life period.

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