United We Stand Strong, Divided We Fall Short Always of True Sisterhood

I wrote this blog to mentally prepare myself for my next show. One of my favorite topics to discuss is The Bond between Sisters. I don't mean "Sistahs", I mean all women of all races and nationalities. There was a time when women would come together and stand strong for one another. Take the time when women were fighting for our rights to vote, we fought together. Let a Woman's child go missing and we are all United to help.
Exactly when did that end? What happened and how do we get it back?
I watch women all the time criticize the next woman simply becasue she doesn't like her. I see women all the time calling each other every name but the one given to them by their parents. Why? Out of jealousy that they would never admit to. Is it really that serious? We sleep with each other's men but we are ready to fight when someone does it to us. And to make ourselves feel better we somehow blame that woman at home for not knowing how to keep her man. Don't get me wrong, you can't help who you love but don't make disrespect that woman to help yourself sleep at night (or sleep with her man), just be real with why you are doing it and have some class to your ass.
Instead of being there for one another we judge each other's situations as if we have never been in them situations ourselves. Or like we are to good, too pretty or too smart to be in those situations. (I actually heard someone say that and that annoyed the hell out of me) We talk behind each other's backs like cowards. We got the opposite sex making us "respect the game". Exactly what game are we supposed to be playing again? Someone please remind me. Ladies you sound stupid playing a man's game. You sound ridiculous with your "my nigga this" and with your foul mouths calling your female friends "your Bitch". When did being a lady mean that you dress like a man, talk like a man and then demand to be treated like a lady? When did being someone's friend mean you smile in their face and talk shit about them when they are not around? When did being a women mean you going toe to toe with a man over some BS other than fighting for your life? When did being a lady mean you going to going to the club every weekend just to meet another Fuck? Since you rely on the playing by the man's rules and what he thinks of you, ask a man what his idea of a "lady" and a "bitch" is and see what he says. Now you don't have to agree with this but you answer that same question and then look in the mirror and tell me what you represent.
I want nothing more than to see my Sisters rise about the BS of knocking each other down. In REAL Sisterhood, when you are down your Sisters are there to help you up. I can't wait to see the day when women rule the world. Be a believer and be your Sister's Keeper. Believe it or not, it all has to do with your love for yourself. When you have that LOVE for you then you won't have it in you to hate another.
My idea of Sisterhood is this: I got your back always, whether you need it or not. A true Sister doesn't just check on you when something happens. A real Sister doesn't say call if you need anything and then sit back and wait for the call, she will call you and check on you if she hasn't heard from you. Sisterhood is a bond and it is knowing that no matter what, you have a support group full of women that knows your struggles first hand. Why can we turn to a man before we can turn to each other?
How do we become Sisters once again. Can we or am I just living a pipe dream? United we will stand Strong and Divided we will fall short Always of True Sisterhood.