How many of you can honestly say that you enjoy being alone? Don't lie to yourself. If you are gonna be 100 with anyone it should be with yourself. Do you enjoy those long walks in the park alone, a movie, dinner, downtime at home watching TV? Or are you constantly yearning for the company of others? Be it a man, woman or child.I got rid of the kids this weekend, who can I call? Who can I go hang out with? I should go chill with my homegirls and get some drinks.
Raising my hand in guilt… I have many moments where I just hate to be alone. But then there are those times where I crave for those times to just kick back and reflect, do some soul searching…
It is important for us to understand the importance of spending that time alone to get reacquainted. To get to know us. We were born into this world alone so why not learn to be alone. If you are always up under someone catering to them and their needs, when do you make the time to cater to you and your own? Learn to do for you. Learn to make you happy. Learn to understand your own moves and habits. If you don’t know you then how will someone else ever will? To love you must first get to know and understand. How could you say you love you if you have never taken the time to get to know and understand you? Create that personal space and learn to get comfortable in it, this way you are never alone even when you are alone…
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From the heart of The BlackButterfly
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