Straight From A Woman's Mouth

This blog just might cause some controversy, but let's help men out a little and be honest for a change. YES, women are complicated. Sometimes we don't even understand ourselves. Stop trying to figure us out and just listen. Listen as we change our mind from one day to the next, month to month and year to year.

Baby can you buy me some flowers?... He comes home with a half dozen roses but you really wanted a dozen tulips. Men wonder why we can't just say what we really mean but the truth of the matter is we didn't really want those damn flowers, we just wanted to see if you remembered that last year we told you how much we loved tulips. If you came home with a half dozen tulips it would have been fine, but because you didn't get the flowers right we magnify that minute issue and make it into a whole big “you never listen to me” argument.

Whether you have a tough woman or a prissy lady, the one thing we all have in common is that we are all WOMEN... Regardless of what we say or how we act, we all still want to be loved and respected. We want to always be recognized for who we are and what we do. Some women put up a wall because of past hurt, some women act tough because they think that's what their man likes... but I assure you this, give them a man that is willing to supply all of their needs and watch them melt down and become that loving wife or girlfriend.

You can't miss what you never had right? So why shovel that “I don't want no man buying me shit”? “I don't need no man to help me raise my kids”, “I don't want this or I don't want that?” What we really mean is the total opposite but we say these things to make ourselves feel better because we don't have those things.

It's no secret that women are emotional creatures, shit I will be the first to tell you. When we say we don't care, what we really mean is we do care and we expect you to as well. When we say forget it, what we really mean is stop arguing and just make it right. When we say we will do it ourselves, what we really mean is get off your ass and help me. When we say no what we really mean is next time don't ask just do it. When we say we hate you we really mean we love you but please don't do that again. We don't expect men to know everything, well we kind of do. Lol. What we expect over anything else is to stop trying to understand why we are the way we are and just except that we are like rubicks cubes... confusing as a motha effer.....

I understand that a man wants to feel like he is in control. He doesn't want to put too much thought into figuring out how to make his woman happy. Ladies, it's true that they want to make us happy... But fellas, learn the art of listening and paying attention. Learn how to perfect the art of making up for getting it wrong because there will be a lot of that. I promise you.... A happy wife makes a happy home, and a happy girl makes a happy world.... Relationships are a lot of work. You have to work for IT if you want IT to work for You...

Straight From A Woman's Mouth.....